"Get Right for Love: The Muscle Guide to Relationship Readiness" launches from Mz. Word

I know this is not what many expect in a blog post but I felt I wanted my faithful readers to know what I was up to these days and why posts have been a little delayed.

Everyone deserves to have love.  Everyone deserves to give love. The issue I've found is that we each have a unique definition of what love really is. Without defining that for ourselves BEFORE we become emotionally attached we set ourselves up for failed or unhappy relationships. Sometimes we stay in those relationships because we need to prove something to ourselves, friends or family. Other times we stay there because to be honest, we are sick and damn tired of being alone and figure we can somehow deal with it.  There are also those types of relationships we feel we simply can't get out of and we are just miserable and in some cases even afraid. 

"Get Right for Love" is not about anyone else but YOU!  Even if you're in a relationship already it helps us to look at what we really want and really need from ourselves and others.  To do anything else creates a pattern of love-hate towards ourselves at times.  We love that we want to love and hate our own choices which boomerangs right back to the way we feel about ourselves.  This creates an unintentional self-loathing effect that we can't recognize as we continue down the unhappy road seeking fulfillment in things and people. 

Because you were born, that in itself makes you simply amazing! I want each of you to be happy in life and to have the loving relationship you deserve. And YES YOU DESERVE to have a person in your life who thinks you are as incredible as the moon and stars.  Some say, "I don't need anyone but God."  Well guess what, even God wanted you to have a help mate but not a HURT MATE! 

In my life I've suffered a great deal of heartache due to choices I made. I do not regret any of it but instead celebrate the growth I've had from it and the woman I've become.  It took a lot of tears, fears, anger and forgiveness of myself to get to a place where I could be ready for a relationship because until I searched within I hadn't realized I wasn't ready before. 

We are imperfect beings and we do things to meet needs at the moment we need them. It doesn't make us bad, we are just human. But as humans, it is our responsibility to ourselves to grow for the sake of ourselves so that we can walk in love every day even if we can only love ourselves.  The first relationship need is with you! 

"Get Right for Love" is a simple guide that needs no complexity for us to understand.  If you know me, you know I'm a basic nuts and bolts kind of person and in this read didn't want to bore you with a lot of fluff. 

I wish you well on your journey as you improve the amazing human being you already are and discover new things about yourself.

In love,
- Mz. Word

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